He has gone through lots of struggles as a young boy. Earning for his studies and still managed to be a top ranker. A man who taught us the definition of Honesty. He is a Hard working person. My dad was working in a public sector where employees are flooded with money during internal elections. I mean the nominees bribe people with about 1000 to 500 bucks,parties n even gold coins (sounds interesting hahn??) But my dad never takes even 1 pie from any of them. We are so proud of him. I would like to mention one small incident here which had a great impact on me.During such an election at his work place.. I had been to my friends place where my friends mother whose husband is my fathers colleague told me that her husband got about 2000 bucks so far(she was very happy coz thatz 'extra' money) and that one of the nominee was giving away a gold coin too. She was trying to be very generous by saying that her husband has reserved 1 gold coin for my dad as my dad was on leave. Here comes the best part.. I told her "Auntie yenga appa adellam vanga matanga. Avangaluku pudikadu" (Auntie, My dad doesn't take bribes. He never likes it)You guys missed the dumb struck reaction on her face.hehe.. He is one of those few people who never likes to sit idle and get paid for it. Instead he works hard and finishes his work on time.
He is our best friend. My parents give equal importance to both of us. I pester my dad a lot. He has lotsv patience. The moment we come home.. we start our regular routine of commenting on all wat had happened from morning till evening. Be it having stupid fights with friends or doing something naughty in class. Everything that is. Seriyana Blade poduvom. My mom will escape into the kitchen but my poor dad will not be spared. The best part is that he gets involved into the conversation. He gives us so many surprises :-) be it buying a sofa or a bike or a cot. He never tells us before hand. Not to mention that he is one great cook. Experiments nallavey pannuvaru. But surprisingly its very tasty. When he is with us,he is just an another kid. We fight, we play, we irritate mom.. Its Fun...
When i was working in Infosys[Love the place..Fond memories..mmm..Now don ask me y did i quit..:-)] I usually come home at 9 or sometime later than that too. It takes 3 hours for me to reach my home as my office is in electronics city and moreover traffic(u know about Bangalore). Also the bus doesn't drop me closer to home so its a routine to call up my dad as im nearing the bus stop. Even before i can come..my Dad will be waiting at the bus stop. No matter how tired or hard the day was for him. He will be there for us. Even if he is in second shift( starts frm 3 P.M to 11 P.M) he takes time off to come out so as to pick us up from the bus stop and drop us home. Ain't he sweet??..He never shows his work pressure at home.
While at home he is always smiling. As i say 'just an another kid'. I love him for that. Oh yeah i have to mention this that while in second shift.. he will always be running about feeding us in the morning coz u see naanga rombo busya ready agitu irupom ;-) [I know seriyana somberinu nenaichirupinga]. When it comes to shopping i take a long time to shop and the only bakra at home is my dad :-). The moment i utter the word shopping everybody runs away. But obviously il pull my dad coz i don want to walk. I want to go by bike. Well that makes my shopping a lil easier ;-)
Its awesome to see my dad smiling. I loove his smile. He will be the first person to encourage us. Even if we hesitate to do something. He encourages us so much that it works wonders. One of his best character is his habit of keeping things neatly and in order. He doesnt like things misplaced. He was always proud of us for what we did and it was very nice to see the proudness on his face.. be it joining a nice college or getting placed in a good organization or getting laurels. We would to anything to see the happiness on his face. He always ahd confidence on us and that his daughters are no less then men.
For what we are today the only reason behind it,.. is my lovely DAD. The things which we learnt form him is something which keeps us going on in life. Not to fear for anything, to be brave, not to expect anything form anybody and many more. He may not be alive now. But he is still afresh in our memories and is still around us. Ever since he passed away its been a roller coaster ride for us. Many people have tried to pull us down. But we were able to stand up strong and the reason again is our DAD. We can still sense him through the people who help us and who are still helping us. He will always be with us. We love him loads and will miss him forever.
He is our Role Model and we are the Luckiest. Love you Daddy...
18 comments:
Cool blog maams. A great tribute to ur dad i must say. Ur lve for him is evident. the good times u have shared and the memories u have are all so nice. gr8 way to begin bloggin
Really felt good while reading this blog. God bless you !!!
My uncle ( Mama ) is a gem, he's my dad too..I love him a lot, a wonderful person to be with. He used to take care of me as his daughter. He love people, he's a good hearted person almost everyone likes him. I like his smile, I used to tell that he looks like film actor karthik and he used to smile when i tell that. We are all missing him..
I love my cousins sunitha and sasi and they too love me. During my childhood days my uncle came to my house with his family then he wanted to take me to his house as it was a holiday season. I had some work the next day so my parents said me to go some other day and my uncle went back to their house. But after some time my uncle came back again to my house and asked me to come to their house as sunitha and sasi are crying at home. Then i too went with my uncle, but when i went to their house i saw sunitha waiting for me outside. My uncle said sunitha refused to get into the house without me..so much love sunitha has towards me and this also shows how much my uncle love their daughters.
When ever am sick my uncle ( MAMA ) used to come and see me and if my parents does not tell him he used to question them for not informing him. I remember once i had a terrible fever then my uncle had come to my house and took me to his house and had taken care of me as my dad i still cant forget those things and will never forget too. I came back to my house after my fever was reduced.
His death previous day he had came to my house, was speaking good and we never expected he will leave us and go far. He may not be alive now, but he is still he's in our memories.
Nice Blog yakka...heart rendering.. like a recap of all memories. way to go girl...keep posting :)
Awesome da ……………… While reading I was thinking about my dad.
When u come 2 HYD …………….. I will intro u 2 my dad.
U will come 2 know him better.
Sweet 1 da ...... :)
"All GOOD things come to an END!!" and this is very true about U uncle!!!! It was then i wondered, "How i wish U were not so GOOD...!!! Atleast U would have lived longer..!!"
Frienz feeling J...,hmmm, i know who it refers to suni... Im still so guilty yaar... will u please 4giv me 4 that???
Just one thing to conclude.... This is straight from my heart...
If there really exists someone called IDEAL DAD, Im so proud that my friend had that!!!
Hmmm...
It gives me a feel of an encyclopedia on "How dad's should be..."!!!
You have put down things in simple n straight words...
Appreciate it!!!
Very Nice Blog da.....
Just left with tears dear.Till this day i regret for not having met Uncle once also though u had asked me to come home so many times.It was so unfortunate that the day i saw him for the first time was the last as well.I hardly remember a day when Sunitha doesn't speak about her Dad,troubling him to buy DVDs and watch all new movies,going for shopping etc etc...
But though Uncle is not here I can see him in Sunitha only,the way she has taken over the family and accepted all the responsibilities.His Guidance and blessings will always be there with you.
Way to go girly....
God Bless U !!
hey Sunitha... really good one da... Let God give u all the strenght to face the world... Keep writing....
excellent...
Just no words to says...
Really touched my heart
a very moving blog for a good start lady... :-)
i may not have known ur dad, but i certainly get a wonderful picture of him...
like apd said, this is a great way to pay tribute to your dad...
Hey sun though i met your dad only once, now i say "your Dad is Great". This blog moved me to tears... I was reminded of my Dad...
No words Sunitha..............
tears rolled uncontrollably
The Blog was very touching.. I know it means a lot to u.. The good moments always cherish in our hearts.. Im glad i have a wonderful friend like u who respects ur dad to eternity.. Let God's blessing be with u always n ur family..
When u need a friend at anytime remember im always there..
Through u i get to know ur dad.. he's a great man.. worthy to be met.. ypu describe it all.. thankx to u..
With my wishes n prayers i rate this Blog as excellent which no blog can excel it..
Take care.. God Bless!!!!!!!!
Hi Suni,
This is excellent one. Normally I do not read the blogs, but when I red this, it touched my mind and heart. I feel sorry that your dad is not alive now, but he lives with you and your family always. His good characters and love stays with you.
God bless your family.
Thanks.
Both of ur blogs r just heart touching yaar... god bless u !
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